Chapter 12: Helping

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So in the final moments of his life on September 11th, as the floor of the South Tower was literally buckling beneath him, Edward McNally didn't panic.

He just picked up the phone, called his wife, and started calmly reciting his life insurance policies just to make sure she'd be taken care of.

Yeah.

And right before the line went dead, she told her to cancel this like surprise birthday trip to Rome that he had just booked for her.

Wow.

I mean, it's just a staggering level of selflessness.

It really is.

And you see the exact same thing in the Garden of the Righteous in Jerusalem, you know, which honors people who risked everything to shelter Jews during the Holocaust.

Right, like, like Jane Hayning, right?

Exactly.

She was this Scottish missionary.

And when the war broke out, she was ordered to go back home and leave her Jewish students behind.

But she just refused.

Yeah, she had that amazing quote.

Right.

She said,

if these children need me in days of sunshine, how much more do they need me in days of darkness?

That's just wow.

Yeah, she stayed.

And she ultimately sacrificed her life in Auschwitz for those kids, which is incredibly heavy.

But it brings us to exactly why we're here.

So welcome to your custom tailored last minute lecture.

That's right.

If you're sitting there right now, you know, feeling that looming pressure of your upcoming social psychology exam, just take a deep breath.

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We're going to get you completely well informed for Chapter 12.

We're doing a deep dive into the psychology of helping.

Yeah, we're going to know Edward McNally and Jane Hayning.

They set the perfect stage for our central question, which is what exactly separates those breathtaking, extraordinary acts of self -sacrifice from like the everyday bystander who just walks right past a stranger groaning on a city sidewalk.

Right.

Like are we inherently selfish or are we inherently good?

Exactly.

So to answer that, before we even look at real world situations, we kind of have to look under the hood at the engine, right?

Like, why are we motivated to help anyone in the very first place?

Right.

And the foundational engine here, if you're taking notes for your exam, is social exchange theory.

Social exchange theory.

Got it.

Yeah.

This theory posits that human interactions are basically a form of social economics.

Okay.

Like we aren't just exchanging money in life.

We're exchanging social goods, things like love, services, status, information.

Right.

And the core mechanism of this theory is that subconsciously, we were always doing the math.

We aim to maximize our rewards and minimize our costs.

Okay.

Wait, wait, wait.

Let me push back on that a little bit.

Sure.

Are you saying we're all just like biological accountants?

Like that nobody ever just helped simply to be kind without secretly calculating what's in it for them?

Well, it's a completely fair pushback.

I know it sounds deeply cynical.

Yeah, it really does.

But social exchange theory actually accounts for that.

It divides our rewards into two very different categories,

external and internal.

Okay.

So external would be what?

External rewards are the obvious cynical ones, like a massive corporation donates a million dollars to a charity.

Right.

Right.

Because the PR boost is worth way more than the million dollars.

Exactly.

Or, you know, you help a neighbor move a couch because you just want their approval.

Yeah.

Okay.

That makes sense.

But the internal rewards, that's where human psychology gets really fast.

Right.

Because helping actually alters our internal physical state.

Precisely.

Like if you hear a woman scream outside your window, your body reacts instantly.

Yeah.

Heart spikes, adrenaline.

Exactly.

It causes you severe internal physiological distress.

Yeah.

So you don't just help her to be a hero.

On a biological level, you actually help her to relieve your own internal distress.

Oh, wow.

So we do good to feel good.

Or actually, I guess it's more like we do good to stop feeling bad.

That's exactly it.

And the research backing this up is incredible.

Take the feel bad, do good phenomena.

Okay.

So researchers McMillan and Austin, they brought college students into a lab for a test.

But before the experiment officially began, they secretly tricked half the students into lying.

Lying about what?

About knowing the answers to the multiple choice test.

Oh, wow.

So you just have half a roomful of students sitting there, absolutely burdened with this secret guilt.

Right.

And here's the mechanism at play.

Guilt fundamentally damages our internal self image.

Okay.

So when the experiment was over, the researchers casually asked if anyone would be willing to stay late and volunteer to score some papers.

Let me guess.

The students who hadn't lied just left.

Yep.

They bolted.

But the students who were secretly harboring that guilt, they volunteered to stay and help at a massively higher rate.

Really?

Just to balance the scales?

Exactly.

They desperately needed an internal reward to balance their emotional ledger and restore their self image.

But it's not just guilt, right?

Because the exact opposite also works.

I remember reading about the feel good, do good phenomenon, which almost feels like a totally different physiological pathway.

It is.

Alice Eisen proved this.

She conducted an experiment where people were randomly given a tiny, inexpensive free sample of stationary.

Just a little gift.

Right.

Just a small, unexpected gift.

And for the next 20 minutes, while that temporary spike of dopamine and good mood lasted,

those specific people were significantly more likely to help a stranger.

Oh, like the wrong number thing.

Yeah.

A stranger would call a supposedly wrong number and ask them to relay this complicated phone message.

And the people who got the stationary were way more likely to do it.

That's so weird.

Why does a good mood make us do that?

The mechanism there is that a positive mood physically expands our attention.

When we feel good, our focus literally broadens outward toward others.

It makes us inherently more helpful.

Okay.

So that's the internal biological math, but we don't live in a vacuum, right?

Like we live in a society with rules.

Right.

If I hold the door for you, I expect you to say thank you.

So there's this whole sociological layer on top of the biology.

Absolutely.

These are social norms, you know, the unspoken odds of human behavior.

And the most primal one is the reciprocity norm.

Which is just, we help those who help us.

Exactly.

It's the expectation of payback.

This is how human beings build social capital.

Mark Watley ran a great study on this.

What did he do?

He had students ask other university students to pledge money to a charity.

The baseline donation rate was, you know, pretty standard.

Sure.

But if the person asking for the money had previously done the participant a tiny unsolicited favor.

Like what?

Specifically buying them a small piece of candy.

Wait, just a piece of candy?

Yeah.

If they'd given them a piece of candy earlier,

the participants pledged significantly more money to the charity.

That's crazy.

Give a little candy, get a little charity.

You just established this micro debt and the social norm forces them to repay it.

Exactly.

But what about people who can never repay us?

Do we still have a norm for them?

We do.

And this is a big one for the exam.

It's called the social responsibility norm.

Okay.

This is the ingrained belief that we should help those who are truly in need without any expectation of future reciprocity.

That sounds nice.

It does.

But here's the catch.

We only apply this norm if we think the person actually deserves the help.

Ah, and who decides who's deserving?

Well, our brains do constantly.

Yeah.

Voodoo Rudolph actually developed a model of attribution to explain this exact reflex.

How does that work?

When we see someone in crisis, we instantly subconsciously judge whether the crisis was controllable or uncontrollable.

Okay, so uncontrollable would be like someone's house burns down in a wildfire.

Right.

If it's uncontrollable, we feel sympathy, which triggers the urge to help.

Makes sense.

But if we perceive the crisis as controllable, like someone gambling away their rent money, we feel anger or indifference.

Our brain says, well, that's their own fault.

And fairness doesn't require us to step in.

Oh, I know the perfect study for this, the Tony Freeman experiment.

Yes.

Walk us through it.

Okay.

So imagine you're sitting in your dorm and a classmate named Tony calls you.

He asks to borrow your psychology notes.

In the experiment, when Tony said he needed the notes because he had been unexpectedly sick in the hospital, which is an uncontrollable event, people gladly shared their notes.

Exactly.

But when Tony said,

uh, I just didn't feel like taking notes today, the students just completely shut him down.

Right.

Because it was controllable.

He was just lazy.

We guard our help really carefully.

We reserve it for perceived dependence and societal norms about who qualifies as a dependent are so incredibly powerful.

They literally override the instinct for self -preservation in life or death situations.

Wait, really?

Like when?

Think about the sinking of the Titanic.

Oh, wow.

Okay.

Because of the strict gender norms of that era, prioritizing the protection of women and children,

women in third class actually had better survival odds.

47 % than men in first class who only had a 31 % survival rate.

That is a staggering statistic.

Yeah.

The social norm of women and children first,

completely defeated immense wealth and class privilege.

That really shows how deeply programmed these rules are.

It past the sociology, past the internal guilt,

we hit evolutionary psychology.

We do.

Doesn't evolutionary biology argue that literally everything we do is just about gene survival?

At its core, yes.

Evolutionary psychology argues we are predisposed to help in ways that ensure our genetic material makes it to the next generation.

Right.

That's why we have kin selection, which is our intense inherent bias toward favoring our own blood relatives over strangers.

Right.

I'd save my brother before a random guy on the street.

Exactly.

And it also explains evolutionary reciprocity, where organisms help each other purely expecting future help, ensuring mutual survival.

Which, I mean, brings up a really cynical philosophical question.

Go far.

If it's all gene survival, social capital, and just relieving our own internal distress,

is any act truly selfless?

Like, at all?

Well, Abraham Lincoln didn't think so.

Really?

Abraham Lincoln.

Yeah, there's a brilliant historical anecdote about this.

Lincoln was riding in a coach with a friend, passionately arguing that all good deeds are rooted in pure selfishness.

Suddenly, he looks out the window and sees this mother pig standing in a marsh, just screaming because her piglets are drowning in the mud.

Oh, no.

Right.

So Lincoln orders the coach to stop.

He leaps out into the muck and he saves the pigs.

Okay.

So he proved himself wrong.

Well, wait.

When he gets back in, covered in mud, his companion says, Abe, where does selfishness come in on this little episode?

Yeah.

Good question.

And Lincoln replies,

that was the very essence of selfishness.

I should have had no peace of mind all day had I left that suffering old sow.

Wow.

So he didn't care about the pigs.

He cared about his own peace of mind.

Exactly.

Lincoln was like the original social exchange theorist.

That's hilarious.

He viewed it entirely through an egoistic lens.

But modern psychology actually challenges Lincoln's cynicism.

Oh, thank goodness.

How so?

Daniel Batson developed the empathy altruism hypothesis.

He argued that genuine pure altruism absolutely exists, but it requires a very specific trigger.

And the trigger is empathy.

Right.

Batson ran that really intense experiment to prove this.

He had university women watch another woman through a two -way mirror.

Yeah.

It's a brutal setup.

And the woman they were watching was supposedly being given severe electric shocks.

Right.

But Batson manipulated the empathy levels.

Half the observers were told that the victim was a kindred spirit, like someone who shared their exact values, interests, and background.

Which naturally aroused a deep sense of empathy in the observers.

Exactly.

And the crucial part of this experiment is the escape hatch, right?

Yes.

Explain the escape hatch.

So Batson gave the observers the option to simply stand up, leave the lab, and go home.

If Lincoln was right, and we only helped to relieve our own distress,

every single one of those women would have just walked out the door.

Right.

Because leaving instantly relieves the distress of watching, and it costs them nothing.

But they didn't leave.

No, they didn't.

Because their empathy was genuinely aroused for this kindred spirit, virtually all of those women offered to take the remaining electric shocks in the victim's place.

They consciously proved that when we truly connect with someone's humanity, we are capable of completely selfless action.

It's beautiful, really.

It is.

But wait, let me stop you there.

Because here's where it gets really interesting.

Okay.

If Batson proved we're willing to literally take high voltage shocks for a stranger when we feel empathy, how does that square with the bystander who watches someone collapse on the street and doesn't even bother to pull out their phone to dial 911?

Yeah.

Like, are we empathetic heroes, or are we cold, apathetic cowards?

That is the ultimate tension in social psychology.

Because what happens is our internal drives crash into the messy reality of situational forces.

And situational forces are terrifyingly strong.

Very strong.

This brings us to the famous bystander effect, researched by Latane and Darley.

Oh, this is a huge one for the exam.

Huge.

They discovered that for you to actually intervene in an emergency, you have to successfully navigate three distinct cognitive steps.

Okay.

And simply being surrounded by a crowd of other people sabotages all three of them.

So step one is just noticing the event, right?

Right.

And to test this, imagine you're taking a survey in a small waiting room.

Latane and Darley pumped actual smoke through a wall vent into the room.

Just right into the room?

Yeah.

When students were sitting in that room alone, they noticed the smoke pouring in within five seconds.

Because obviously it's smoke.

Right.

But when they put groups of students in the room together, it took them about 20 seconds just to notice the smoke.

Because when we're around strangers, we subconsciously police our own eye contact.

Exactly.

We keep our heads down, we stare at our phones, or look at our paperwork to avoid looking weird or socially aggressive.

The cognitive load of managing our social appearance literally blinds us to our physical surroundings.

That's perfectly set.

But let's say you do notice it.

Step two is interpreting the event as an emergency.

Okay.

So you see the smoke.

What do you do?

Well, in the solitary condition, the individuals investigated the vent and immediately reported the fire.

Right.

But in the group condition, where three students were in the room together, they just sat there.

You're kidding.

No.

They sat there passively, coughing, rubbing their watering eyes and doing absolutely nothing.

Why?

Why would anyone do that?

Because of a phenomenon called informational influence.

Oh, informational influence.

That's when you use the crowd as a clue to reality.

Exactly.

It's exactly like being at a party and someone tells a really bizarre borderline offensive joke.

Oh, that's a great analogy.

Yeah.

What's the first thing you do?

You don't react.

You immediately scan the room to see if everyone else is laughing before you decide if you should laugh or look shocked.

That is exactly it.

You outsource your reality to the group.

In that smoke -filled room, everyone noticed the smoke, felt a spike of panic and then covertly glanced at the other two people.

But because the other two people were also trying to play it cool and not look panicked, everyone saw a room full of calm faces.

Right.

So they internally concluded, well, since no one else is panicking, this must not be a fire.

It must be or maybe truth gas for the experiment.

That is horrifying.

We will literally sit in a burning room because we're too embarrassed to be the first one to panic.

It gets worse.

Seriously.

Yeah.

Even if you notice the event and you correctly interpret it as an emergency, you hit the third wall, assuming responsibility.

Okay.

Latane and Darley demonstrated this with the seizure intercom experiment.

Oh, this one is brutal.

It is.

They put participants in completely isolated rooms, communicating only over a microphone system.

So there's no visual peer pressure this time.

You can't see anyone's face.

Right.

Suddenly one of the participants on the intercom, who is actually a prerecorded tape, starts having a severe, violently choking seizure.

He is actively begging for help, gasping for air.

Now, if a participant believed they were the only person on the intercom line with the victim, 85 % of them immediately threw off their headphones and rushed out of the room to seek help, which is what you'd hope for.

Yes.

But if the researchers told the participant that four other people were also on the intercom line listening, let me guess it dropped massively.

Only 31 % went for help because of the diffusion of responsibility.

Exactly.

The mechanism is simple math.

If I'm the only one here, 100 % of the responsibility to save this man's life rests on my shoulders.

Right.

But if there are five of us, I only bear 20 % of the responsibility and 20 % just isn't enough to make me get up out of my chair.

I just assume someone else has already called for help.

Now, a quick note on this because it brings up a vital point about research ethics.

Yeah, I was going to say.

What's fascinating here is that these experiments deliberately deceived participants and put them under immense emotional stress.

They thought someone was dying.

You might ask, is it ethical to torture college students like that?

It sounds incredibly manipulative, honestly.

It is.

But when Latane and Doralee debriefed the participants afterward,

100 % of them, every single one, said the deception was completely justified.

Really?

Even after all that stress?

Yes.

Because uncovering these hidden fatal flaws in human behavior is so incredibly valuable.

Once we know the bystander effect exists, we can actively fight it.

Right.

But it's not just crowds that dictate our behavior.

The environment around us is constantly throwing invisible levers.

Very true.

For example, seeing pro -social models physically elevates our willingness to help.

Oh yeah, the Brian and test experiment.

Right.

They found that drivers were significantly more likely to pull over and help a woman with a flat tire if they had just driven past a different person, helping someone change a tire a quarter mile down the road.

It's contagious.

Exactly.

It triggers a feeling of elevation that we immediately want to replicate.

It's the exact same mechanism behind why salvation army donations spike when people see the person in front of them drop money in the red kettle.

Conversely, though, time pressure acts as a massive suppressor of altruism.

Oh, this is a classic.

Darley and Batson ran the legendary Good Samaritan experiment.

I love this one.

They took theology students at a seminary, people who have literally dedicated their entire lives to altruism and faith.

They told these students they needed to hurry across campus to record a speech,

and half of them were even assigned to give their speech about the parable of the Good Samaritan.

You literally cannot write better irony than that.

It's incredible.

They told these students, you're late, you need to rush.

As the students jogged across campus, they passed an actor, slumped in a doorway,

groaning and coughing in clear distress.

And what happened?

The vast majority of these rushed seminary students practically stepped right over him.

Wow.

Even the one's going to talk about the Good Samaritan.

Even them.

The mechanism here isn't malice.

It's cognitive narrowing.

Cognitive narrowing.

When we're under severe time pressure, our brain physically narrows our focus to our immediate goal.

We lose peripheral awareness.

The situational context of being in a hurry completely shut down their deep, lifelong inner convictions.

That's wild.

There's another contextual trigger that's a bit uncomfortable to talk about, actually, and that's similarity.

Yeah, this is a tough one.

The data shows we are overwhelmingly more likely to help people who look, dress, or act like us.

Like, Emswiller did a study having actors ask strangers for a dime, and students were much more likely to hand over the money if the requester was dressed in similar clothing.

Whether that was conservative attire or, like, counterculture hippie clothing.

Exactly.

It didn't matter what the clothes were, just that they matched.

It's an in -group identification mechanism.

Levine expanded on this by studying Manchester United soccer fans.

Oh, the jersey study.

Yeah.

They had an actor jog past the fans, slip and fall, grabbing his ankle and groaning in severe pain.

The Manchester United fans routinely stopped to help him.

As long as he was wearing a Manchester United shirt.

Right.

If he was wearing a plain shirt, they helped less.

And if he was wearing the jersey of their bitter rival, Liverpool, they usually just walked right past him.

The jersey literally dictated his humanity to them.

Yes.

And De Bruyne even found this operates on a subconscious facial level.

Wait, really?

Like, facial features?

Yeah.

Using computer morphing software, she found participants playing an economic trust game.

We're demonstrably more generous to strangers, whose faces had been subtly morphed to share their own facial features.

Wow.

We are biologically wired to trust our own reflection.

Okay.

So if the situation, like just being in a hurry, being in a crowded room, or seeing someone wearing the wrong sports jersey has the power to completely override our biology and our beliefs, I have to ask.

Go for it.

Do our individual personalities even matter at all?

Does it actually matter if you are a good person?

It's the most critical question in personality psychology.

And the answer requires a slight perspective shift.

Okay.

Lay it on me.

Personality might not perfectly predict your behavior in one single isolated emergency.

Right.

Because the situational noise is too loud.

But your personality absolutely predicts your average behavior across many situations over time.

So who is the prototypical helper?

What are the traits?

The key traits are positive emotionality, a naturally high level of empathy, and self -efficacy.

Self -efficacy being the deep -seated belief that you're actually capable of making a difference when you intervene.

Exactly.

Interestingly, there's also the nuance of self -monitoring.

What's that?

People who are high in self -monitoring are intensely attuned to the expectations of others.

They're highly likely to step in and help.

But the mechanism there is that they'll usually only do it if they believe their helpfulness will be socially visible and rewarded.

Got it.

And what about gender?

We talked about the Titanic, but how does that play out broadly?

The data splits very cleanly along contextual lines.

Okay.

Men are statistically more likely to intervene in short -term dangerous or heroic situations, like running into a burning building or rescuing someone from a physical attack.

And women?

Women, however, are far more likely to engage in long -term, sustained acts of caregiving and volunteering.

Makes sense.

What about religion?

You'd think a deep religious faith would be the ultimate predictor of helping someone in need.

It is.

But again, it's highly contextual.

How so?

In a minor spontaneous emergency,

like someone dropping a stack of papers on the sidewalk,

intrinsically religious people are only slightly more responsive than non -religious people.

Oh, really?

Yeah.

However, when we shift the lens to planned, intentional choices, things like volunteering for AIDS hospices, mentoring in Big Brother Big Sister programs, or making sustained charitable donations over decades, religious faith becomes an incredibly strong, reliable predictor.

Because faith provides a sustained moral framework that outlasts temporary situational pressures.

Exactly.

Okay.

We've covered incredible ground.

We know the biological engine of why we help.

We know the terrifying situational hurdles of when we help.

And we know who is most likely to do it.

Right.

Now, for the most vital part of your exam prep, if you're listening, how do we use this exact science to hack our social habits?

How do we artificially increase helping in the real world?

Well, if we connect this to the bigger picture, the first most effective strategy is undoing the restraints.

Meaning what?

We have to violently break the bystander effect by reducing ambiguity and increasing personal responsibility.

And the fastest way to do that is to personalize the bystanders, strip away their anonymity.

Oh, like the Solomon and Solomon experiment.

Yes.

Detail that one.

Okay.

So they staged a medical emergency, but right before it happened, they had the bystanders simply introduce themselves to each other by name and age.

Just a simple introduction.

Right.

And just exchanging a name completely shattered the diffusion of responsibility.

Suddenly, you aren't an anonymous face in a crowd anymore.

You're David, age 20, and everyone knows you're watching.

They were massively more likely to help the sick person.

Personalization forces accountability.

Yeah.

It's why restaurant servers who lightly touch a customer on the arm or introduce themselves by name get significantly higher tips.

The mechanism is removing anonymity.

That makes total sense.

Another way to do this is by forcing self -awareness, right?

Yes.

Deval found that.

If you put people in front of a TV screen displaying closed circuit footage of their own face, or even just have them look in a mirror, they act better.

Exactly.

There was that amazing Italian postcard experiment where pedestrians were way more likely to stop and mail a dropped postcard for a stranger if they had just walked past a mirror.

Because seeing your own reflection forces a psychological reckoning.

Your brain demands that your physical actions align with your internal ideal self.

It's so cool.

What's the next strategy?

The second strategy is weaponizing guilt.

Sounds intense.

Richard Katzev ran experiments where he lightly reprimanded visitors at the Portland Art Museum for touching the art.

Or he reprimanded people at the zoo for feeding the bears.

Okay.

So they feel a little guilty.

Right.

Shortly after the reprimand, an experimenter would walk past those same people and accidentally drop something.

Oh, yes.

58 % of the guilt -laden reprimanded people scrambled to help pick the item up, compared to only 33 % of people who hadn't been reprimanded.

Oh, we talked about this.

The McMillan and Austin study.

They needed an internal reward to restore their damaged self -image.

You got it.

Which leads perfectly into Robert Cialdini's famous door -the -face technique.

Tell me about that.

Cialdini went up to college students and asked them to commit two whole years of their lives to volunteering with delinquent kids.

Two years.

Obviously, everyone said no.

Naturally.

Everyone panicked, slammed the metaphorical door in his face, and said, absolutely not.

But then he immediately counter -offered.

He said, okay, I understand, but would you be willing to just chaperone them on a single two -hour trip to the zoo?

Ah.

It's a masterful manipulation of the reciprocity norm, because the students felt a tiny pang of guilt for rejecting his massive first request.

They felt obligated to accept his concession.

And it worked.

The compliance rate for the zoo trip doubled to 56%, just because he asked for the moon first.

That is so sneaky.

Okay, so what's the third strategy?

The third strategy is socializing altruism at a cultural level.

This requires teaching what researchers call moral inclusion.

Moral inclusion.

Meaning,

expanding the circle.

Exactly.

You have to consciously expand the boundaries of your moral concern to include people who don't look or act like you.

Which is the exact opposite of the moral exclusion the Nazis used to psychologically justify the dehumanization of the Holocaust.

Exactly.

And to do this, we also had to carefully model altruism in public spaces.

Chialdini did another study at the Petrified Forest National Park.

Oh, where people kept stealing the petrified wood.

Yes.

The park used to put up signs saying many past visitors have removed the petrified wood destroying the park.

Which is the worst thing you can do.

Right.

Why?

Because by telling people that everyone else is stealing, you're actually using informational influence to create a social norm of theft.

You're telling them stealing is what normal people do here.

Exactly.

Chialdini proved you should never publicize the rule breakers.

You must only publicize the good behavior.

Wow.

But as we try to encourage altruism, we do have to be incredibly careful of the over -justification effect.

Oh, let me make sure I have the mechanism right on this one.

Go ahead.

It's a cognitive trap, right?

If you reward someone too heavily for doing a good deed, you actually destroy their desire to do it.

Yes.

Like, taking a kid who loves drawing just for the pure joy of it, and deciding to pay them $5 for every picture they finish,

suddenly their brain relabels the joy as a transaction.

Drawing feels like a job.

The intrinsic motivation dies, and the second you stop paying them, they never draw again.

That is precisely the mechanism.

So if we bribe people too much to be helpful, they attribute their behavior to the bribe rather than their own inner goodness.

You nailed it.

Yeah.

You only want to provide just enough justification to prompt the good deed,

allowing them to internally own the altruism.

Makes sense.

And that brings us to the final, and perhaps most empowering, strategy.

Simply learning about altruism.

Really?

Just learning about our help?

Yes.

Arthur Beeman ran a study where he gave a group of students a detailed lecture on the bystander effect, just like the one we're doing right now.

Okay, and what happened?

Two weeks later, those students were walking across campus and encountered a staged emergency.

A person sprawled out under a bicycle, apparently injured.

Oh, wow.

Compared to students who hadn't heard the lecture, the enlightened students were twice as likely to stop and help.

Are you serious?

Twice as likely?

Yes, which means just by preparing for your exam with us today, you have statistically altered your own future behavior.

You are now twice as likely to be a helper.

That's incredible.

It really is.

So we've journeyed from the subconscious math of internal guilt to the terrifying paralysis of the smoke -filled room, to the deep traits that define our personalities, and finally, to the psychological levers we can pull to hack human behavior.

It really works, too.

There was actually a post -script story specifically included for you regarding this material.

Wow, I'd love to hear it.

A former student was walking down a busy street in Washington, D .C.

She saw an unconscious man lying on the sidewalk.

Okay.

Dozens of pedestrians were just walking right past him, caught in the grip of the bystander effect, assuming someone else would handle it.

Right, diffusion of responsibility.

Exactly, but because she had studied social psychology, she recognized the informational influence happening in real time.

She saw everyone else ignoring it and knew why they were doing it.

Yes.

She understood the mechanics of the spell, so she was able to break it.

She stepped out of the crowd, called for help, and stayed with the man until the ambulance arrived.

Education quite literally changed her behavior in a life -or -death moment.

Wow.

Which leaves you with this final provocative thought to take into your exam.

Yeah.

If simply learning the mechanics of the bystander effect is enough to physically alter how we react in a chaotic emergency, it really makes you wonder,

are we actually capable of completely overriding our selfish genes through pure conscious education?

It's a powerful question.

It is.

And if so, what other biological defaults are holding us back that we could hack just by studying them?

Something to think about.

Absolutely.

Thank you for studying with the Last Minute Lecture team today.

You've got the theories, the mechanisms, and the insights.

Best of luck on your social psychology exam.

You're going to crush it.